Kristen Lilla has been in the field of sexuality for over ten years. She has been a licensed practitioner for over eight years, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist since 2013, and an AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator since 2016.  Her calling to the field of sex therapy began in high school, after seeing a production of The Vagina Monologues. It was the first time the topic of sexuality was put on a platform to have a discussion. Kristen was inspired to help women be more comfortable in their bodies and to help them take control of their sexuality and be comfortable expressing their sexual needs.  Kristen’s passion around sexuality grew and expanded as she became involved in the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer (LGBTQ+) community.  Eventually, her passion evolved even more as she began to work with both individuals and couples. Kristen Lilla has worked with people of different cultures, ethnicities and backgrounds so that they may find their sexual voices and experience sexual pleasure. In addition to being passionate about sex therapy, Kristen Lilla is also devoted to sexuality education across the lifespan. She has presented workshops internationally at schools, universities, and conferences on various issues including Consent, Erectile Dysfunction, the LGBTQ Community and the Coming Out Process, Low Libido, Polyamory, and Non-consensual sex.


Kristen Lilla works with a variety of sexual issues which include the following:

  • Affairs
  • BDSM
  • Body Image
  • Communication
  • Consensual Non-Monogamy
  • Couples Counseling
  • Desire Discrepancy
  • Erectile Difficulties
  • Fetishes
  • Gender Variant
  • Infidelity
  • Kink
  • LGBTQ+ Relationships
  • Low Libido
  • Men’s Sexual Health
  • Non-Sexual Relationships
  • Performance Anxiety
  • Pleasure Enhancement
  • Polyamorous Relationships
  • Pornography Related Issues
  • Premature Ejaculation
  • Problematic Sexual Behavior
  • Purity Culture/Religious Drama
  • Rekindling Desire
  • Sex Addiction
  • Sexual Anxiety
  • Sexual Trauma
  • Sexuality and Aging
  • Sexuality and Disabilities
  • Sexual Identity
  • Sexual Orientation
  • Trans-Affirming
  • Women’s Pelvic Pain
  • Women’s Sexual Health



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